Dating a banker anon
But the good news is that you probably can eventually get the men that you think you can get - assuming you are willing to work at it, and do.
The biggest takeaway, though, is that if you aren't getting the men you want (but you think that they are in your league), your first move shouldn't be to lower your standards, it should be to self-improve.
Each of us has an inherent knowledge of our own capabilities and dispositions.
But in general, we know ourselves well; we know what we are capable of becoming.