Dating someone with herpes risk dating an abused man

16-Aug-2017 02:37

Another thing to consider is that your friend may have caught the herpes simplex virus from YOU!This crazy virus affects everybody differently and you may have been one of the 90% who has the virus and didn’t know it until you unknowingly passed it on to your partner. I have gone through "the conversation" a million times in my mind. After going through the normal flip out and that my dating life would now consist of Ben and Jerry’s and DVD’s every Saturday night, I’m ready to get out there again.Does your friend take anti-viral medications such as Valtrex for suppressive therapy?The FDA has approved Valtrex as a medication for reducing viral shedding and dramatically reducing the transmission rates. This is important to know because often a person who has HSV-1 on their genitals or genital region, will not experience as many outbreaks as a person who has HSV-2 or genital herpes.The herpes stigma is very powerful in today’s society and it has probably taken your friend a great deal of courage to discuss this very personal and sensitive subject with you.This should show you that your friend has a great deal of integrity.

I can only cite my own experiences and those that are common but in the end, we all don't experience the same symptoms or outbreaks.Another thing to think about is perhaps their symptoms have been so mild that they were overlooked in the past.It is likely that they may have become infected years before ever meeting you.And remember that integrity is the foundation of a truly meaningful relationship and dating someone with herpes is no different.

Here are a few simple tips while moving forward in your relationship: The risk of becoming infected with the herpes simplex virus is relatively high when dating within the general population.Do have any personal experiences dating someone with herpes?